What can I do to make a guy like me? or How to make a guy like me? Some of these questions are always circulating in a girls mind when she is looking for a strong and long term relationship. It is very simple to be noticed by a guy because they are not complex in nature. All you have to do is learn the way about how to get a guy to notice you.
We will discuss how to get a guy to notice you in easy yet powerful steps for both scenarios that he is a complete stranger or you already know him. In maximum cases you will get 100 percent result by following exact steps.
Fortunately, it is quite easier getting a guy to notice you because it includes using basic social skills. You must be pleasant, direct, honest and importantly reasonable. Following are both case scenarios
Scenario # 1 :- Incase of You are already have a friendship with the guy
1). Dressing is first and basic tip to seize an attention
It is time to get a new look. I am not talking about changing yourself. I mean try new cloths, hairstyle etc. It is a good idea to apply these kinds of changes once in a while, this will help you catch his eyes because diversity is the spice of life. Since beauty is common, you need to be tough and looking different from all your competition and remember great energy and outlook is very rare to find.
2). Spend more time with him or try to be around him
If you take interest in the activities he likes, by this you will not only come close to him but also you will find out more about him which will widen you own horizons. Don’t do things which you don’t like but you only do to make him happy though he will love it, but one day he will find out and will hurt him a lot, so avoid that.
3). Start Flirt with him
Flirting with a guy you like is a good relationship tip and this will bring him closer, but don’t overdo it. Because he will notice it and either he will start ignoring you or trying to take an advantage of you. If he reacts the way you think it’s not real then he might be doing it because you are a girl and he thinks he can do it better than you, and then let him know that he can’t. If he is faking it, call his trick and say something that makes him know you don’t think he is “all That”. E.g. if he comes closer, make a silly face and try to divert his attention at that specific time. This will unbalance his self-esteem.
4). Make a bond with him by knowing what you do and like both
Same activities or hobbies will help you get noticed by him. For that join the same club and work together is a key to know more about him
5). Don’t try to be somebody else
Always remember that first impression lasts longer. Some girls start acting strangely when closer to the guy they like. When you are yourself you give him a chance to find out who you really are. Never over react. Trying to be someone else can be very toxic to your relationship especially when you want to get his notice.
Scenario # 2 :- If the guy is complete stranger
1). Show him the interest
Give him a smile when he looks at you with open or close mouth. You have to learn how to give an encouraging smile, the person will then feel that you are contented and secure girl who knows how to spend good and quality time with anyone. This will communicate that you are welcoming their friendship.
2). Start communication
Start you conversion by saying ‘hi’ or ‘hello’. Few of the girls directly ask guy his contact numbers, email address or even facebook id in their first meeting. Which most of the guys don’t like for the first move like this. All you should do is start talking to him and try to know more about him by talking about things which might by common between you two. This will create mutual interest. For a startup question him about anything and listen to his reply. Don’t disrupt his reply. You can praise him or it even better if you ask him to help you in some problem you face.
3). Start friendship with him
Don’t stop the flow. If he is your Mr. Right then offer him your friendship to become the first one to establish a relationship. Most of the time strong relationship begins in a good friendship. And trust me who knows about the future that what will become of your friendship.
4). Work on him for better understanding.
First of all get to know that his likes and dislikes in a partner. Follow up with his likes. Try to find out more about his routine or his daily activities. If he likes jogging every day, then join him. By this you will find more time to spend with him and acquire more knowledge as a friend and while doing that try not to show him that you are doing it purposely or you start liking him.
In last, it is not necessary that everybody notice you. Keep in mind that you will not find your Mr. Right in your attempt so don’t panic. You are a best, normal and complete person on your own, and for happiness you don’t need a guys attention. But remember too much obsession can do the negative effect on your relationship, it will simply push him away. If he still doesn’t notice you, just leave it alone. Don’t push it harder or things will get nasty and you will earn a bad repute. Now you have enough information about how to get a guy to notice you. so go for it girls and good luck!!!!
